I know it will get better over time. It will only get worse. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. While dating is a good time to get to know someone, if you are young it is better to go on group dates. I am giving him all of those things. Disease and Condition Articles.
Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. Thanks so much for the links. Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. They will teach the boys that masturbation is evil, which will cause most boys to lie about it and feel deep shame and guilt. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. I can honestly say we have grown apart thru the years. We have been together for just over a year and married for 3 months. I don't mind staying home because I understand he's tired. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc.
And he likes the idea of us raising our daughter with the values the Mormon church instills on their youth. So I feel like we have to wait yet another year just for the daunting part of it to start. Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come. Your crush will watch you closely to see how you interact with these little ones. I can understand his desire to spend time together to reconnect, but right now it really isn't there. We'll discuss further after the holiday and see where we end up. RUN like the wind. It is really hard and so good to see that I am not alone in this. Sorry if I gave that impression. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table.
Before I would just take things as they came, internalize them, be miserable about it but not voice my concern in fear of being told that I can't handle his lifestyle. But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. He realized his dream of being a specialty surgeon and having a family but leaves the dirty work to me.